"We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day"
-Edith Lovejoy Pierce

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Now, how many of those people keep it up?
-past the first week: 75% (yes 25% of people quit their goal after a week!)
-past 2 weeks: 71%
-After one month: 60%
-After 6 months: 45%
-After a year: 10%
Maybe we should start calling them New Week Resolutions. Yes, over half of all people don't make it to the summer with their Resolution. You are probably shaking your head thinking you made the same resolutions-you even got a spankin' new pair of running shoes to start the New Year right?! Well, don't let the statistics get you down, but rise above and do something that will stick this year!!

Make it attainable. So many people say "I am going to lose 30 pounds" but that is a whole lot of weight and not an easy feat by any means. These huge, daunting goals all too often cause people to crash and burn. Change your goals to something that are able to be done in a relatively short time span. You may be working on 30 pounds all year (assuming you last that long) and that can be discouraging but if you say I am going to lose 5 pounds-then you can celebrate when you reach it and set out for another 5. The same concept can be applied to all goals from exercising (don't say you are going to compete in the Inaugural Texas Ironman competition if you are just starting to work out), eating right (you can't keep a card-free lifestyle for a year-hard and not at all healthy) or any goal you set out to achieve.

Chose one goal. One is hard enough to keep up for a year. Saddling yourself up with 3 or 4 will only doom you for failure. Select one (maybe 2) that is truly important to you and work from there. Change takes time so keep the other ones for years following.

Write it down. We all write down what our goal is but how many write a specific action plan? Do we think a piece of paper with 'loss weight' scribbled at the top is going to motivate us? Make a timeline, write what specific behaviors need to be changed, plan when/where/how you plan to accomplish this and use this as a time to pinpoint what stimulus' cause you to stumble.

Tell everyone you know. The more people you tell, the more that will hold you accountable. It is a whole lot harder to quit when you know people are cheering you on!

Reward yourself (thanks Pavlov...yes, I am a huge nerd!). He would pair the reinforcement with a stimulus and the desired behavior so that the dog eventually produced the behavior without a reinforcer but simply the stimulus. If you have resolved to eat better than do something good for yourself when you pass on that chocolate cake at the company dinner. You cannot do something without seeing the benefits and allowing yourself to feel good about the hard work. It is ok to make a big deal out of each small effort! It will help you with success in the long run!

Frequent self-monitoring. Check in on yourself and be honest on how you are doing. It is not the end of the world if you manage to make excuses from going to the gym for a week-it becomes a problem when that is a habit. If you have predetermined checkpoints you will be able to evaluate your efforts and revise if necessary. You will see where you have slipped and reward yourself for the areas of success. Calvin is right-we don't need to change every aspect of who we are. We are 'fearfully and wonderfully made' and New Years is another day to recognize that!
Wow, these sound familiar? Probably because these are cliche (and effective) motivational strategies for all of life's commitments. New Years is really just another day but has been a marked time in which many re-evaluate their life. Well, one suggestion is to tell everyone, so I suppose I should follow my own advice (but I am actually sorta-breaking another). I have made New Years Resolutions for the first time ever-crazy, huh?-one of which is to take more pictures. Not really so much of a resolution just a way to be more conscious of it! The real one is to do the One-Year Bible. The pastor at my church challenged us to take 2011 to work through it and really talked about how effective it was for him and many of those around him. I am pretty bad about getting set in my ways, in all aspects of life really, and sticking to the chapters I really like. This is a great way to step out of my comfort zone and see the powerful things the Lord has to say (yes, this includes Leviticus!)
Happy New Years! Be sure to eat your black eyed peas-without guilt, they are low fat! :)
Megan








